1 What do you think caused your heterosexuality? I'm sure a combination of my environment and natural tendencies. I've always maintained an interest in women; even still though some may consider me exclusively hetero since I haven't ever had a chance to play on anything else otherwise.
2 When and how did you decide you were a heterosexual? Toughie. I'm not really sure, growing up in a religious household you aren't given much choice. My parents always said if I brought home a guy of a different race they would accept him but never told me anything about the possibility of bringing home a girl. It wasn't acceptible. I was taken to my first gay/lesbian protest at the age of four.
3 Is it possible that your heterosexuality is just a phase you may grow out of? No, I really love cock.
4 Is it possible that your heterosexuality stems from a neurotic fear of others of the same sex? Hehe no, not when I'm always wanting to experience things with girls anyway.
5 If you have never slept with a person of the same sex, is it possible that all you need is a good Gay lover? Quite.
6 Do your parents know that you are straight? Do your friends and/or roommate(s) know? How did they react? yes. Yes. My parents were only concerned when I was unmarried and sleeping with men.
7 Why do you insist on flaunting your heterosexuality? Can't you just be who you are and keep it quiet? I don't really think I've ever "flaunted" it per-se.
8 Why do heterosexuals place so much emphasis on sex? What type of emphasis? All types are placed on it from all kinds of people. Growing up it was emphasized that sex was wrong until I was married, while engaged it was emphasized that I shouldn't get pregnant, and now that I'm married its been implied that I'm expected to bear a grandchild. While all deal with sex they're all different types of emphasis. Somehow we're expected to instantly change our views on when sex is good and when sex is bad.
9 Why do heterosexuals feel compelled to seduce others into their lifestyle? I've never "seduced" anyone into my lifestyle, you either click with a person or you don't.
10 A disproportionate number of child molestors are heterosexual. Do you consider it safe to expose children to heterosexual teachers? Minorities make up a disporportionate number of criminals, is it safe to expose children to minorities in any setting?
11 Just what do men and women do in bed together? How can they truly know how to please each other, being so anatomically different? Practice I suppose. Some men like certain things more than others, this (in my experience) is usually discussed in flirtation before any sex actually happens. Then when you have sex you're either good or you're not.
12 With all the societal support marriage receives, the divorce rate is spiraling. Why are there so few stable relationships among heterosexuals? People try to force things to work when they know they probably won't. They do what they are expected to do rather than thinking for themselves and doing what they know they SHOULD do.
13 Studies show that lesbians have the lowest incidence... Honestly, I would have to say that no its not. The thought of being single again still scares the shit out of me with all of those possibilities.
14 How can you become a whole person.... In the ideal world I wouldn't, but I'm married so... I gotta get permission :p
15 Considering the menace of overpopulation... Natural selection always finds a way. And we may not survive at all should it decide we aren't needed.
16 Could you trust a heterosexual therapist.... Just because someone is heterosexual doesn't mean they can be open to other lifestyles.
17 There seem to be very few happy....? The want to "change" is already there, it wouldn't be necessary.
18 Would you want your child.... They would have problems either way. But that choice is theirs, not mine to make.
(had to cut down the questions to get my whole answer in)
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Date: 2006-02-25 02:51 pm (UTC)I'm sure a combination of my environment and natural tendencies. I've always maintained an interest in women; even still though some may consider me exclusively hetero since I haven't ever had a chance to play on anything else otherwise.
2 When and how did you decide you were a heterosexual?
Toughie. I'm not really sure, growing up in a religious household you aren't given much choice. My parents always said if I brought home a guy of a different race they would accept him but never told me anything about the possibility of bringing home a girl. It wasn't acceptible. I was taken to my first gay/lesbian protest at the age of four.
3 Is it possible that your heterosexuality is just a phase you may grow out of? No, I really love cock.
4 Is it possible that your heterosexuality stems from a neurotic fear of others of the same sex?
Hehe no, not when I'm always wanting to experience things with girls anyway.
5 If you have never slept with a person of the same sex, is it possible that all you need is a good Gay lover?
Quite.
6 Do your parents know that you are straight? Do your friends and/or roommate(s) know? How did they react?
yes. Yes. My parents were only concerned when I was unmarried and sleeping with men.
7 Why do you insist on flaunting your heterosexuality? Can't you just be who you are and keep it quiet?
I don't really think I've ever "flaunted" it per-se.
8 Why do heterosexuals place so much emphasis on sex?
What type of emphasis? All types are placed on it from all kinds of people. Growing up it was emphasized that sex was wrong until I was married, while engaged it was emphasized that I shouldn't get pregnant, and now that I'm married its been implied that I'm expected to bear a grandchild. While all deal with sex they're all different types of emphasis. Somehow we're expected to instantly change our views on when sex is good and when sex is bad.
9 Why do heterosexuals feel compelled to seduce others into their lifestyle?
I've never "seduced" anyone into my lifestyle, you either click with a person or you don't.
10 A disproportionate number of child molestors are heterosexual. Do you consider it safe to expose children to heterosexual teachers?
Minorities make up a disporportionate number of criminals, is it safe to expose children to minorities in any setting?
11 Just what do men and women do in bed together? How can they truly know how to please each other, being so anatomically different?
Practice I suppose. Some men like certain things more than others, this (in my experience) is usually discussed in flirtation before any sex actually happens. Then when you have sex you're either good or you're not.
12 With all the societal support marriage receives, the divorce rate is spiraling. Why are there so few stable relationships among heterosexuals?
People try to force things to work when they know they probably won't. They do what they are expected to do rather than thinking for themselves and doing what they know they SHOULD do.
13 Studies show that lesbians have the lowest incidence...
Honestly, I would have to say that no its not. The thought of being single again still scares the shit out of me with all of those possibilities.
14 How can you become a whole person....
In the ideal world I wouldn't, but I'm married so... I gotta get permission :p
15 Considering the menace of overpopulation...
Natural selection always finds a way. And we may not survive at all should it decide we aren't needed.
16 Could you trust a heterosexual therapist....
Just because someone is heterosexual doesn't mean they can be open to other lifestyles.
17 There seem to be very few happy....?
The want to "change" is already there, it wouldn't be necessary.
18 Would you want your child....
They would have problems either way. But that choice is theirs, not mine to make.
(had to cut down the questions to get my whole answer in)